Documents found...

Well yesterday I had a very productive day in my flower beds, I worked outside from 7:00 in the morning until 8:00 at night!! A good way for me to work off my nervous energy. About 4:00 yesterday our documents arrived in Washington DC - I was talking to the Travel Document agent when he checked the mail - and there it was!! Obviously nothing could be done in time for us to leave today. Our flights had to be cancelled, and we will start over again. I will let you know when the new dates are! Our goal was to show forth Christ to the people in those small villages of Africa, that is still our goal, we will do it in the Lord's time.

Africa postponed...

Well it appears we will not leave for Africa tomorrow, our travel documents, including our passports have been lost in the mail - our prayer is they will be returned to us, but at this point it will be too late for our departure tomorrow. I am dissappointed, but I can only believe the Lord has worked this out for us to go at a better date. I will keep you all posted.

What is a friend?

It's a funny thing about friendship, you know, I have some friends that I have had for more than 30 years, that I may not see in years at a time, but when we meet up again it is like we never parted. Other people I would consider a friend and they are distant. My definition of a true friend is someone who loves you, warts and all. They don't change their mind because you make a choice different from theirs, they don't change their mind because you take a different path in life, they don't change their mind because you make a mistake, or you totally blow it, they just love you through it all. That does not mean they condone your wrong doing, or they agree with all your choices, it just means they love you in spite of it all. Our divine example is the love of Christ, we have nothing good in ourselves, we are self centered, selfish, egotistical people, but He chooses to love us no matter what, if we are His friend. Peter was hot tempered and quick to act, Jesus had to clean up after him on occasion when he made a mistake, but Jesus still loved him, Thomas who doubted Jesus and Jesus was just patient with him, and still loved him. Few disciples remained close to Jesus through His trial and crucifixtion, because they were afraid for their lives, but He continued to love them all (except Judas who was not his true friend, but only looking for personal gain). Jesus just loved them, warts and all, different personalities, but He loved them. That's a true friend. I pray in my life my friends will say I was a true friend, and I thank God for my true friends, some of them are my family members, isn't that nice! I hope today as you read this you are encouraged to be a good friend - call a friend today , let them know you are thinking of them and appreciate their friendship.

Happy Birthday Toni Jo!

Happy Birthday Antoinette Josephine Terzaghi or Toni Jo as we call her, she is the little one on the left in the first picture and in the middle on the bottom pic. This is my baby sister, she is 47 years old today! The top picture is me , my older sister Micki, our Mom, Toni and my brother Al, my Oldest sister Sandy and my baby brother John are missing from the picture. The bottom picture is Micki, Toni and me just a couple years ago. We haven't aged toooooooo bad! Toni I pray you have a great day, I love you, Happy Birthday!

My friend

My friend went to heaven today, around 8:00 this morning. I am sure there is rejoicing for him. We will celebrate his life later this week and things will go back to normal for us, not so for his family. We will all miss him very much and I know he will be remembered for his impact in this community and the lives of hundreds of individuals. You know we all write our own eulogy, each day, with each word, with each act of kindness or unkindness. What is said about us at our funeral will be in direct relation to how we lived our lives. I have thought about this alot, as I have had several friends and family die in the past few years, what will my funeral be like, what will the preacher say, what will my family and friends say. I can remember a song from many years ago titled "Find us Faithful" and it was just about that. It talked about wanting to light the way for others to come to the Lord, to live a life pleasing to Him. Gives us all something to think about, doesn't it? I'll miss you Doc, thanks for being a faithful friend.

Update on my friend

Here is a picture of Dr Fox and his grandson Ian. They have determined there is no further treatment for Dr Fox, the stem cells did not take - his liver and kidneys are failing. Doc wanted to go home, so Friday night they transported him by ambulance from St. Louis to Passavant Hospital here in Jacksonville, it is about 2.5 hours. He made the trip well. I visited with him and his wife Teresa on Saturday morning, his family and friends are all surrounding him and are thankful for this special time together. Please pray for them all during this time - thank you.

My friend

Some would say my friend appears to be losing his battle with cancer today, but those of us who know him know better - if he goes, he will be the winner! And he loves to win! Psalms tells us "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints" If he goes, there will be a celebration in heaven, and we will gather and celebrate his time on earth. If he goes we will be together again someday... Jesus told his disciples in John 14 "In my Fathers house are many dwelling places; if it were not so, I would have told you, for I go to prepare a place for you and I will come aagain and receive you to Myself, that where I am there you may be also." We will see him again when we all gather together around the crystal sea to sing praises to our Lord. We love you Doc, we are praying for your family.

My friend

Let me tell you about my friend, he is fighting for his life as we speak. He fought oral cancer about 10 years ago and won! Now he is fighting Leukemia, he had a bone marrow transplant 18 days ago, his body is not responding and in fact is losing the battle right now. The last 2 days we have had a hint of good news, but it is still a very serious situation. He is in ICU at Barnes Hospital in St Louis and his dear wife has been at his side every minute. His battle began in October 2007 with 3 rounds of chemo and then many other varied treatments in preparation for the bone marrow transplant. Let me tell you about him, his name is Richard Fox. There are only a few times in anyones life, I think, that you can say were life changing moments. When this friend asked me to work for him it was one of those moments. He is a General/vascular surgeon - I was his best friends secretary. When his best friend decided to move out of state, I decided to make a job change. Dr Fox asked me to come work for him as a private surgical scrub - what was he thinking? I was a secretary, with not the best typing skills, (his best friend would attest to that!), but he said he wanted to teach me to scrub with him, so I would do it the way that would be the best help for him. That opened a whole new world for me. I went to work for him for several years and then began working for the hospital - I worked in surgical services for 20 years! That really does not tell you about my friend. He is one of the most compassionate Drs you will ever meet. I wish I could describe for you how he would go talk to the family after a difficult surgery, and sit on the floor cross legged, drawing pictures on a napkin or whatever scrap paper someone had to show them and explain in laymans terms so they could understand what he did. He never spoke over their head - his goal always was to help them understand. He never made a phone call to the waiting room, he always went and spoke to them face to face. I asked him why he had become a doctor, he said when he was little his mother had a brain anuerysm, she was in ICU and he and his brother were scared. The doctor took them to an x-ray view box, sat him up on the table and explained to them what had happened and what they were doing to help. That was it, that was what he wanted to be! A compassionate caregiver that would take time with the family to help them understand. There are 100's of people in this area that will attest to the fact that he has attained that goal, many whose lives he was instrumental in saving, many who passed on, but the families knew he did all he could. He loves surgery, I used to tell him he was not happy unless he was making someone bleed - it's true - he loves it. More importantly he loves God and he brought up his family in church. He and his wife have 5 children, he did not send them to church, but he brought them. He sang in the choir, he served as a deacon. I have many funny stories I could tell about my friend, but that is for another day, today I just want you to meet my friend and ask you to pray for him. Thanks.

Earthquakes, earthworms and visas

I was off Wednesday and it was a beautiful day!! I worked outside most of the day and as I was moving shrubs, dividing Japanese Iris, hostas and astilbe I came across many of these little earthworms, I also came across many vole tunnels. These little critters are driving me crazy, they are a small version of a mole and they eat the roots of plants and kill them. I have been battling them for several years, if any one has any ideas to get rid of them, please share!!!! This forsythia is on the Northeast corner of the house and was just beautiful on Wednesday I put this fish fountain flower bed in a number of years ago and the voles manage to kill almost everything I put in there. They have not messed with the irises and tickseed I have in there, but most everything else seems to disappear. I have put pots of annuals around the fountain in years past to make up for it. The rocks around the fountain came from the shores of Lake Superior and from Lake Michigamme at my sister Toni's house, my little bit of the U.P. in Illinois.

We woke up Friday morning to the house shaking. The windows were rattling and the bed was moving back and forth. As I woke up Wendell sat up in the bed, I said "what is that?!" and as calmly as anything he said "earthquake" How in the world he computed all that at 4:30 in the morning is amazing to me. Nick said he woke up and the handles on his dresser were rattling and his bed was moving back and forth as well as the windows rattling and he immmediately thought of a scene from the movie "the exorcist" - freaked him out. I was amazed to read in the paper this morning that the strongest earthquakes in the U.S. have been along the New Madrid fault along the Missouri, Tennessee border and in 1811-12 a series of quakes measured 7.8, 8.0 and 8.1, which is 10 times stronger than the earthquake in San Francisco in 1906!!! I had no idea! April called from Louisville, it woke her up and she got a call from her dad in Cinncinatti, it woke them up too. I was at work and about 10:15 our chairs started shaking and our computer monitors started moving - an aftershock. We are in the basement, not a good place to be in an earthquake! It is surprising to me, most everyone has not been frightened by this, it just seems to be a novelty. It is just so unusual to us.

We sent our visas off, we should have them back in a week or so. I will post our itinerary and some prayer requests as our departure date gets closer. Hope you have a great weekend, it is supposed to be 70 here tomorrow, it is raining today. The farmers are really getting frustrated, they are ready to get into the fields. For anyone who does not know, this area of the country is mainly farm ground - corn, soybeans and wheat. This time last year crops were already starting to come up, for the most part they have not even been able to get our and plow yet. It may be a late season for them. Hope you get out in the yard, or the park or somewhere to enjoy spring!

More on Africa

Here are some pictures of Carol and Marie in the boat on the way to the village and then as they were leaving with some of the tribe. Marie was held in very high honor because of her age, they do not generally live that long.

AFRICA!!!

When my kids were growing up I prayed the Lord would work in their lives in a great way - but I have to admit I prayed He would not send them to Africa -I had seen missionary videos and slide shows and really thought that would not be the place I would want them to be. Well, my children all know the Lord and are serving Him and He has never called them to Africa. However - He has called me. Our church embarked on a relationship with a tribe of Africans, the I'mboteni people in a remote part of Northwestern Guinea, 2 of our ladies went there last winter and were welcomed warmly. The people were excited and warmly listened to them and the gospel they came to share. We believe some accepted the message, including the chief, who hugged one of our ladies (she is 78!, actually that is wrong, she is 85) when they were leaving and told her he would see her in heaven! These people are sooo poor and they have no fresh water, our church decided to raise the money to put in two wells, in two neighboring villages. That work is about to be completed, we are going to dedicate the wells and further evangelize and build relationships with these precious people. We will leave May 6th and return on May 15th. The trip takes about 24 hours. We will fly from St. Louis to Chicago. From Chicago we will fly to Brussels Belgium and then on to Africa. We will stop in Dakar, Senegal and then an hour flight on to Conakry, Guinea. Our missionaries will meet us there. We will drive about 5 hours to Kamsar, where we will get on a boat to go to a remote coastal area where the villages are. A missionary from Senegal as well as an African pastor and an interpreter will go with us. These remote tribes speak their own languages, so even our missionaries from Senegal and Guinea do not know their language. The people there are aware we are coming. Our church children have made gifts of beaded jewelry for us to give as gifts, I am so excited to share with the children their response.

The top map (if you click on maps they will come up larger) shows Guinea - where we will be going; flying into the capital, Conakry and then driving to Kamsar to get on the boat. The larger map shows all of Africa, as well as if you look just north of France you will see Belgium, our first stop where we will spend about 5hours before flying on to Africa.

Pray for us as we go - I am excited to see what the Lord will accomplish in Africa because a small church in Jacksonville, Illinois is burdened for the people there!

I love this!

Somewhere over the rainbow!

Simon said something about this video on Idol last week, I checked it out - I know I have heard it before, but I thought I would add it for anyone who has not heard it. (the most amazing thing is that I got this to come up on here!!)

Hope you are having a good day! Those of you up north are getting snowed on, we are getting a few snow flurries here too, but sunny days are coming!

Sprouting seeds

2 of the 3 trays I planted last week Sprouts!

I am trying to be economical - I usually spend a lot on annuals to fill in my perrenial beds, this year I decided to try starting my own annuals, as well as some herbs and a couple veggies. I let you know how they do - I hope well.

SPRING!!!

Everything off the walls Curtains too - windows washed, ceilings dusted, floors waxed - Spring cleaning!

Glad that's done! Bleeding hearts Daffodils Forsythia! Everything is coming alive again. This is such a great time of year, I am finding new green things poking up out of the earth everyday. Nick pruned my shrub roses and cleaned up my mums from last year yesterday (for a price of course). I have not raked the leaves out of the beds yet, I may do that next weekend - our last frost date is the middle of May, I am anxious, but I still have some more things to do inside. I am going to repaint my laundry room tomorrow, the walls really taking a beating since that is the way into the garage. No color change, just a fresh coat of paint. I will be glad to have all the cleaning done. Still on my list is to clean out my closet - it is a mess! Hope you are having a great spring!

Memories

Jordan playing with the twins Three in a row Greasing up our hands to make pizza!

We really had a great time and I think everyone enjoyed the fun things we did - I know I did and I am already looking forward to our next time together!

Getting a little quiet!

Tania and the girls flew home on Wednesday, they were on the same flight as Dr Lillpop and his group on their way to Haiti for a mission trip. I introduced him to Tania and the girls and he said if she had any problems with Daphne on the plane he would help out - what a blessing, since Tania cannot hear and has a very small visual field! Chris and his family headed for Missouri yesterday morning to see Jennifers family and this morning Dan left for Chattanoga Tennesee to speak at a youth event. April and the twins are still here - keeping us all smiling. Dan will be back Sunday night and then they will leave for home on Monday. I don't know what we are going to do with an almost empty house. Of course, Nick keeps it exciting, he bought an I-phone yesterday, that is going to be the talk of the house for a long time. It really is cool! Tania called yesterday and said her and Johnny are talking about the possiblity of moving to Illinois - what great news, it sure would be nice to have them close! I hear the boys - I better go!

Easter! Easter?

This was a couple days before Easter, the weather was great almost 70 degrees, Dan and April took all the kids to the park to play, and then ........ Yes, we woke up Easter morning to snow on the ground, but it was also a blessing. Cassie had never seen or touched snow, so she was thrilled! They live about 45 minutes north of Miami, so 50's is extremely cold to her!! The girls looked so pretty in their Easter outfits for church, but they were a little chilly! The ham was baking, the potatoes were in the oven and off to church, for a wonderful service! Dan preached at a church near Chicago this morning, so believe it or not, he left here at 6:00 am - drove to Chicago, preached and then turned around and headed home! He arrived about 3:00. This year Jordans birthday fell on Easter, so after ham, sweet potatoe casserole, texas potatoes, green beans and homemade yeast rolls we had a birthday party! The girls settled in on Grandpas recliner and played their DS's. We spent a couple of hours on a photo session by Chris, those pictures will show up here on the blog before the end of the week - stay tuned! Also notice I added a link to Chris's Blog to the right - check it out! I pray you all had a blessed Easter - God has been so good to me, He has blessed me with a wonderful family - Thank you Lord!

They are all here!

Ahhhh - they are all here! Chris and his family arrived about 7:00 pm - my chicks are all in the nest. All of you mothers out there with children in far off places know exactly what I mean. My three children - now 35, 32 and 31 years old - and all their families are here. I cannot tell you how wonderful it was just to sit here tonight between my boys - Wendell, laughing at their "growing up" stories - Tania, Jen and April talking about everyday stuff, Caylee (6) and Cassie (7) - giggling and holding hands, happy to see long lost cousins - Nick coming in from work and joining the party - Jordan - looking every bit the almost 12 that he is, the twins and Daphne running in circles around the rooms - chasing each other, baby giggles, sweet - sweet sounds! Family - this is what it is all about! We will have more cousins in tomorrow and another set of DeWitt twin boys (5 mo old) - it is going to be a crazy house, what fun! The nest is full and I am wore out - I am going to bed - with a smile on my face!

More fun!

Cassie, Daphne and their mom are headed for Illinois today - I am so anxious to see them!! We were in Florida in August, Daphne was just 11 mo old, now she is 18 mo old and walking! It will be interesting to see what she thinks of her twin cousins, Isaiah and Micah who are 1 mo younger. Cassie will meet Flat Stanley on his vacation in Illinois and we are going to have fun! I am so thankful that my kids like to come home and I love it when they do! Thank you Lord for your gift of my children, their spouses and my grandchildren!

Spring

Well, here in central Illinois we are into the spring season. I noticed last night when we got home from church about 7:30 the birds were still singing. Obviously the spring mating season is in full swing. I saw a woodpecker on a tree in the backyard, first time ever. The robins are back, the purple finches, gold finches and winter juncos are all fighting for seed at the thistle feeder. My chives are about 6 inches tall and my tulips are not far behind. I got on the Pasty cam, a website in the upper peninsula of Michigan, http://www.pasty.com/cam/ this morning and copied this picture, obviously they are still deep in winter up there, although with the sight of open water it means spring is on the way. That is a lot of snow! Snowmobiling, skiing, ice skating, hockey and sledding are still the main sports! When I was little, growing up there, this was the worst time of year. Winter is so long and you are so anxious for spring, I just wanted to go pour hot water on the snow and melt it! But soon enough the snow would melt and spring would arrive! I sure miss winter up north, I would love to be the first to leave boot prints in that snow! Happy Spring to you all!